Meet the Founder | My Journey to The ADHD Guy

'It's wasn't being diagnosed with ADHD in my 40's that changed everything… it was what I did about it'

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The struggle I didn't understand…

For over 40 years, I lived with a brain that felt like it was constantly working against me. I never knew how to regulate my emotions, stay focused, or manage the chaos that seemed to follow me everywhere. I was bright, yet simple tasks felt impossibly difficult, while everyone around me seemed to navigate life effortlessly.

As a child, this showed up as behavioural issues and an endless cycle of disciplinary interventions. Teachers would habitually reprimand me for missed deadlines, being the primary contributor to the lost property department or losing focus more often than I gained it. I was labelled a disinterested, lazy trouble-maker.

The truth is I didn’t set out to get into trouble or enjoy the almost daily public dressing downs and detentions. As I got older, I started to believe the press and the reputation became self-fulfilling.

The executive with a secret…

I spent 23 years climbing the corporate ladder, achieving outward success while battling constant internal turmoil. I developed sophisticated masking strategies to hide my struggles with:

Time management - Always running late, missing deadlines despite working hard for longer hours than necessary
Organisation - My desk looked professional, but I lived in constant fear someone would see the chaos hiding in my brain
Emotional regulation - Intense reactions to feedback, criticism, or unexpected changes
Focus - Brilliant in crisis situations but couldn't sustain attention on routine tasks
Overwhelm - Everything felt urgent and important, making prioritisation nearly impossible
Impulsivity - Quick decisions that sometimes paid off spectacularly, sometimes backfired dramatically

I was exhausted from constantly trying to fit into a neurotypical world with a brain that simply worked differently and felt my symptoms start to spiral out of control.

I spent 23 years climbing the corporate ladder, achieving outward success while battling constant internal turmoil. I developed sophisticated masking strategies to hide my struggles with:

Time management - Always running late, missing deadlines despite working hard for longer hours than necessary
Organisation - My desk looked professional, but I lived in constant fear someone would see the chaos hiding in my brain
Emotional regulation - Intense reactions to feedback, criticism, or unexpected changes
Focus - Brilliant in crisis situations but couldn't sustain attention on routine tasks
Overwhelm - Everything felt urgent and important, making prioritisation nearly impossible
Impulsivity - Quick decisions that sometimes paid off spectacularly, sometimes backfired dramatically

I was exhausted from constantly trying to fit into a neurotypical world with a brain that simply worked differently and felt my symptoms start to spiral out of control.

When everything changed…

In my 40's, after years of wondering why I had to work so hard to finish things, concentrate & remember things, and dealing with the various consequences of my chaotic organisation and time blindness, all the time masking my struggles, I was finally diagnosed with ADHD. My psychiatrist called it "the easiest diagnosis of his career" - the symptoms were so clear once someone finally looked.

At first, I took the diagnosis for what it was, probably brushed over it and got about taking the medications. For whatever reason the medication didn’t seem to work for me and my symptoms weren’t getting any better. I had to find a different way out and that’s when it all started to change.

I became obsessed with understanding my ADHD brain. I devoured every research paper, book, and resource I could find. I learned about executive function, neuroplasticity, and the profound mind-body connection that affects everything from focus to emotional regulation.

But most importantly, I learned that ADHD brains aren't broken - they just work differently.

That moment was both devastating and liberating. Devastating because I realised how much unnecessary suffering I'd endured. Liberating because suddenly, everything made sense.

I started testing strategies on myself, documenting what worked and what didn't. My quality of life began to transform almost immediately. I got fitter and healthier in mind, body, and soul, witnessing how progress in one area profoundly benefited the others.
To formalize my knowledge, I pursued qualifications in ADHD Coaching, Holistic Life Coaching, and as a Mind and Body Practitioner.

Finding My Purpose…

As I transformed my own life, I realised I had found a calling. All those years of struggle had given me something invaluable: deep, authentic understanding of what it's like to live with undiagnosed ADHD, and how to bounce back.

I understand the exhaustion of masking. The frustration of being misunderstood. The relief of finally having answers. And most importantly, I know what it feels like to move from surviving to thriving with ADHD.

My life today…

So I started The ADHD Guy - helping others navigate their own ADHD journey with strategies that actually work.

Of course, like everyone, I still face challenges. ADHD doesn't disappear - but now I have the tools, strategies, and understanding to work with my brain instead of against it.

Today I have developed an inner resilience, a sense of purpose, and most importantly - a practical toolkit that I use to help others transform their relationship with their ADHD brain.